Im not a negativ person, dont worry. Valentine is not one my favorites. everyone needs to do something ,otherwise u dont belong the the human race.  Valentine is something for  hidden lovers   NO???haha  yep  Valentine is for secret loves.

But ..

The poor of Calcutta.

Working at the office with wonderful view over the country.We sit third floor.U might think whats the problem there, u can watch outside during working hrs..U need to work. Well U sit down and have 2 hrs??? NO???? well oke i wont annoy u with our Comp.probs. Listening to the weather forecast made us worrying. It was about to snow and it came from the north east ( of course cold always comes from there) so as promised it started with small dust snow. Small white snowflakes.

But the clock was ticking and the dust snow became SNOW. In few minuts we had a white blanket. Oh Nice…. My friends  in hot countries always love that white stuff. But not me. Worrying how to get home in one piece. As u might remember 2 years back my car made a swing to the right  when i wanted to go left. The fear is still in me.

We hoped that the guys who clean the roads started in time. 

4.15 pm we decided to stop work and go .. cos we did not do a thing just talking abt getting home without accidents.

First i had to find my black car . Loaded with snow. Virgin snow haha  Joke. I removed the snow   ( My hands were frozen) i started the car and went. I drove i think with speed like 25 or 30 km /hr. Its around 8 km i have to drive.

The roads were horrible from the first meter to the last. In front of me was a driver using his brakes every minut. It was getting on my nerves Although i tried to keep my eyes focused on everything. 

and then home sweet home. 

TO morrow normally we have to go to a baby drink But as the place is in a kind of polder area we decided wisely to cancel that trip.

This morning it was minus 12 when we checked the temperature. The roads are a mess so we decided to walk to the shop to get food in the house. And When we got home i saw this beautiful art work of a tiny guy ( maybe girl). So guys   Maybe monday the roads are clean  cos this lady has to work again ON THE THIRD FLOOR!! with awesome view.

BTW this is my mailbox.  And the art piece is made by one of my house pets  lol. ( hmmmm  garden pets)

Fotograaf Michel Denis-Huot made these surprising foto’ s on safari in Kenia’ s Masai Mara He was bewildered by what he saw: ” These three brothers (cheetahs)  lived together since they left their mother when they where  18 months old. One morning Michel  saw them run rapidly, but sometimes they stopped  to play together. ‘ At a given moment they came to a group of impalas. One impala was not  fast enough and the brothers could catch him easily. These  scenes were extraordinary,  they walked away simply without doing him pain ………..

I wish  we human beings could act like this. But we kill without reason.Just for  …hmmm Yes for what?

Gosh My nails are gone.I bite like turbo these days.Yes friends im a nail biter.

After the funeral   as every one says  life goes on.

Oke  it is but the empty place stays.

Last year we met a couple during a drink in a restaurant. We started to talk and since that moment we have a close contact. They also support us with our projects. To day i got a mail from the lady and my world turned upside down. Her husband is fighting the unfair fight. And every day can be the last.  U might say  Oke thats life.

Thats true..But whats the meaning of this.??i feel so sorry for them.

And then

My husband comes home.  with the news  that his fiendss mom had an accident 83 years old and hit by a truck.  She was with her rollator.

The truck was doing a manouvre  and did not see her.  She died instantly

and  I want to give my love to Michiko san  She is a fantastic mom and Gmom. Michiko san is a friend of me since 2005.

http://michiko–blogpostcom.blogspot.com/

i want to send her my love  Michiko san be well soon. 

MJ

I had the idea of putting positiv news. I tried  I swear.

Nothing special. But The voucher was a 8.300 euro plastic surgery gift from a Mother to her 7 year old child. The mother is obsessed by  perfection. The mother has a nickname as the British Barbie doll. She spent already 600.000 euro on plastic surgery for herself.

A lot of Bristish ppl condemn such kind of botox mama’s Its irresponsable that such women can have kids.  They think kids as Poppy  need to be taken away from their mothers.

Do we have a solution for this?? But one thing is a fact.The Mom is probably doing this to get the press attention again now she  is out of the news for herself. (Tell me one person that needs to read that she has another lipo??) But the fact is she gives this child a  derogatory picture of beauty.

A course parenthood maybe for Mom???

and what to do with the plastic surgion??? Coz he gets the voucher. ( Dollar signs in the eyes  Oeps  ……………..  POND  Cos we are in UK no??

The typical transport in Asian countries is the 3 wheeler. The tuk tuk.

When we visit our friends in Balapitiya we take one and when we go back to hotel our friends come with us.U cant belief this but we sit with 6 persons  ( exclusiv the driver) in that small tuk tuk.

For our projects its also a perfect transport But when we drive i often close my eyes.

When we go to Aluthgama we always meet a couple .

Very old..I dont have idea abt their age. But when they see us they smile from ear to ear.

The man is sitting in wheelchair.  As i work in low cure hospital i see electric wheel chairs with all kinds of adaptations,  and then when i see this man i think   see the man smile with his wife pushing the chair. Next time when we go  I will make his wheel compleet again.

May your troubles in the new year be
as short-lived as your resolutions.

A New Year’s resolution is something that goes
in one year and out the other.

CHEERS

We were standing in front of the sea at Beruwela beach  Sri Lanka. 

We gave the sea the flowers of the franchipan  as a symbol for those that were taken by the waves.

How can we forget such tragedy. 

My life changed since then.

The foto in my header i took in 2005  In Yala Park in the south of Sri Lanka.

The restaurant ..normally  at the beachline was totally gone, Including the staff and tourists. The animals in Yala ran inland They felt something coming