The Woman in ur life.

 Guys all over the world…..READ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry her with these facts as well.
Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;
Who is earning almost as much as you do;
One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are;
One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your sister haven ‘ t, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements
One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;
One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family ,name
One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen
One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn ‘ t want to; and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won ‘ t like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;
One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;
Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won ‘ t, simply because you won ‘ t like it, even though you say otherwise
One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;
One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important, relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her;
One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house – your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly – your understanding, or love, if you may call it.
But not many guys understand this……
Its not my intention  to start World War  3 guys … hahahahihihihi….just crazy me ( this rimes yes)
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25 Responses to The Woman in ur life.

  1. Joe says:

    Well, I have to agree with you. My wife and I have always had a unique relationship and live with unique circumstances. Misunderstandings and competition can lead to outright hostility and that has messed up many relationships. I consider that respect cannot be taken only given and I can’t think of a better person to give that respect to than my wife. We all have our unique purpose in life…how much better to work together rather than battle? Now if I can just practise as much as I preach!

  2. Ruma says:

    Very nice and enlightening entry, Sweeti. However, it’s a man’s world, and the majority of working women are expected to manage home and work on equal terms. It’s a tough life for the average working woman anywhere in the world.Thanks for your comments. I too sympathise with the pop phenomenon Michael Jackson. The media always protrayed him as a freak, a man with no morals, and basically a weirdo. Revelations about him after his death portray him as a lonely man, who was desperately ill and had no one to turn to. Very sad indeed. It is true then, that money can’t buy you love.Have a great Sunday!

  3. Michiko's says:

    Hi Sweeti san,As I read your post thats very truth in nowadays but some younger working couples are sharing their works such as take care their baby when baby wake up in middle of the time was 90% I had been house working& cooking and look after our son’s.I think totally individuality in the person? I ‘d like to control the kitchen area because the man can make a mess it up after he used nice cleaned kitchen bench though thank goodness my ex can’t read this lol!I’m very happy to be a woman. And I think you are too MJ……I still try hard to get back my golf up to where I was two years ago.It not happent these day but still really enjoy 19 holes with my friends. Enjoy your Sunday Sweeti san,Michiko

  4. charming says:

    I have nothing to tell know why? :)face the life it may comeI love you Sis :)Cha

  5. ηικκιħart says:

    Hi MJ,Wonderful post, doesn’t seem like much what women want in return for all they give does it, but it means the world.Sorry I haven’t been by lately hon, just been so busy with out of town guests and things the past week or so.Hope you have a great start to you week.See you again soon,Big hugs, Nikki

  6. sillygloop says:

    Seems like u were the listening post for someone in need..indeed true that balancing a relationship on top of work takes a lot, and needs a lot of patience and understanding. Have a great week ahead!

  7. Enter says:

    The beach sure can become a visit by appointment place going by the crowds descending on it 🙂 It’s indeed my home beach being quite near my home. I visit the other beach more often these days…the elliots beach…since me and my friends hang out there. The humidity does not affect the stone, but anything iron goes rusty within 6 months. You should write about your country and its issues once in a while – helps others from around the world know more about it and understand it better. Have a great evening.

  8. Enter says:

    You’d do great with the pics and story if your bicycle story was anything to go by 🙂

  9. Ajay Kumar says:

    Every single word you have written makes sence MJ. except the words after you hahahihi :)and one thing you have missed to mention..A woman can make or break a man.This is a Unique gift she has.Have fun MJ

  10. ღ_BabyEvelyne says:

    Heey Marijke!ben nog eens langsgekomen & heb maar ineens een plaatje meegebracht.<a href="; target="_blank"><img src="; border="0" alt="Photobucket"></a>Fijn weekend!KnuffBabyEvelyne

  11. Michiko's says:

    Hi Sweeti san,Have a wonderful weekend my dear friend!Michiko

  12. Michiko's says:

    Hi Sweeti san,I think you and I are certain age that what you said ha ha ha that I agree with you "No way commit suicide!"it already past our time? lol! I’m glad said this to you ha ha haWhen you thinking about these suicide business "Not many an old people do that?I think is not delicate mind as younger peope then we have more maturely mind so we should have that.Big Hugs to you!MichikoHow is your knees? the last week I played golf with who had knees operation for Five month ago then she had played very well then I thinking of you Sweeti san!

  13. deepu says:

    haha lol look at that profile pict ..i thought only divoo was lazy lolei this post of your is there in my new book that i m working on lol …this surely is a slap for many stupid men lolhow you doing?njoy a lovely sunday

  14. Rambling says:

    Hi Sweeti, I was so glad to see you today. I often see your comments in my friend Michiko’s space. :-)Thank you so much for the visit and comment.Carole

  15. charming says:

    Hi MDon’t worry.. enjoy your week .. ride, run, and laugh all the time….HugsCha

  16. Enter says:

    Gr8 that you’re able to run without any issues now. And a whole beach without anyone? Wow..nice! I was in Bangalore just roaming around town..hitting the usual restaurants and checking out some options for sports. Have a great day.

  17. ₪Μy§TẲfiЄĐ₪ says:

    Exscuse me? And a man gives up nothing?Grrrrr…Well..I hope that you’re enjoying your break from work MjAnd having a fantastic timeGarry xox

  18. Beth says:

    Thank you for stopping by my space and leaving a comment.You have a lovely space!

  19. ₪Μy§TẲfiЄĐ₪ says:

    Hi mjI know that you’re trying to be helpfulSo…no problems here!Garry xox

  20. Adrian says:

    In the ‘dance’ called life, it takes two(2) equally with mutual respect! :)Adrian

  21. Michiko's says:

    Hi Sweeti san,I was very happy to seen you had visit Beth, Rambling On, space that I always thought it would be nice to see comment on our friends space as used to be? Back to 2006? I got a little bit sore back this morning there I have a jogging around see our friends lol!it seems not go away completely, a last Thursday I have had a massage after that it doesn’t make senselol!I needed a good spare part from Japan for my back? Anyway I took one tablet then I might have a hot bath.. Have a good day,Michiko

  22. Ajay Kumar says:

    Life just looks complicated mj.The truth is, Its very simple.Who said you are not good in english mj?I understood every single word you wanted to tell me :)And Thanks for every thing MJ.sisters are always sweet 🙂

  23. Michiko's says:

    Hi sweeti san,Enjoy your week off, Can I joying with you? A bit too far away from here:-) Maybe in dreams lol!Big hugs,Michiko

  24. Enter says:

    52? That’s quite a long one… nice you could pull it off. Riding the saddle sure isn’t as comfortable on cycles as in choppers…they really should make better cycle seats 🙂 I did catch the beach pic…looks nice, lonely but cold…can’t imagine stepping into cold water though! Enjoy the day.

  25. KHALID says:

    Hi sweeti,why it is so that man is targeted and presented as model of commander for women dictating his terms without looking to the hardships of women. The fact is that it takes two hands to clap. Similar sentiments can be expressed by a man too but this will not be just to tit for tat. What comes to mymind is that men and women don not maintain equilibrium and if one is submissive and dutiful, the other takes it granted t rule and command. This is not fair. When two souls join to lead a lifejointly, they both are bound to care for each other, respect each other, share joys and griefs and share all burden of life. Be thisa job, working in kitchen or bringing up children. Is this not sufficient that a woman bears a child for9months in her womb and bears all delivery pains and man is relievedof all this thus it is obligatory on man to comein field after the birth an assist the woman in dayto day work and this sharing will eventually bring happiness in home and life will be more comfortable. But most of the men don’t understand this. It is surprising that a woman of west thinks on these line where it is propagated that both men and women have equal rights and look down upon less developed country people. Th other day I was watching report on CNN that a large number of men otrtur their wives, beat them, hurt them, drag them to filth and do many more cruel acts elow dignity of humanity. Psychatriasts have tried to find ways to solve the situation but they miserably faied for they found it was woman behid all this scenario. So when women are enemy of their sect then who will come forward to solve it. Poor man is being grilled for no fault of him, though he can’tbe absolved of his criminal acts and adament behaviour with women. I think my friends, men and women will excuseme for speaking truth.Wish you well lol.

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