Things Happen Because God wants it…

Those last 2 weeks were not really happy weeks.

But as we say Life goes on…and on 

And Realising that im a lucky woman cos im healthy and shaking my ass once and a while.. My colleague fysio guy with Kahler starts his chemo to morrow He goes for it. Afraid for the future.

To morrow morning we have funeral of our colleague her hubby.He died last week sunday evening. painfull.

My bro in law is recovering from infection on pancreas.Time will tell when the gall stones will be removed  But first things first and thats the infection.

My mom in law is slowly walking again.

Tx to all my friends for the support

Prenin, Joe, Babyman,  articwolf  Li Wan,

Michiko san, Ian, Jenn and  Andro Froggy and europicewolf,

my colleagues at work.and my buddy, and everyone who wrote me a mail with words of courage. It means a lot.This is a foto of my cat Chica.I think im gonna copy her.  The relax mode i mean.

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34 Responses to Things Happen Because God wants it…

  1. Joe says:

    Like I’ve heard it said: when it rains it pours…seems it’s been pouring for your loved ones for a while now. I know it can’t last forever. Love the picture of your cat! Don’t you wish life were so simple?

    • chicasl10 says:

      True Joe its been pouring but seems there is always a rainbow after heavy rains My cat Chica knows how to relax..sleep eat and play.
      Enjoy Joe and tx for ur support.

  2. prenin says:

    Thanks for the kind words sweety – it’s always hard when you have so many friends and family suffering, but we’ll be here for you and you’ll never be alone! 🙂

    Love and squishy hugs babes!


    • chicasl10 says:

      Tx a lot Prenin. Simple a word…a touch a teardrop its so simple but it means so much.
      dont squish to hard Prenin lol
      Have a wonderful sunday

  3. prenin says:

    Hi Hun! 🙂

    Yes it gets me how women go back to abusers time after time.

    Dad didn’t have the excuse of alcohol, he was an all around evil bastard, thief and liar who didn’t care who he hurt, preferably somebody that couldn’t fight back like mum or us kids when she stopped giving him the excuse!

    Now I see Geraldine suffering and my hands are tied.

    All I could was get the Police to talk to her and get it on record, but she still didn’t want them to intervene in case it made it worse – my mother’s excuse played out all over again…

    Things are better today, but as long as she’s scared to report it, the violence will go on.

    She left me a note saying things are a bit better, but how long before it happens again???

    Love and hugs!


    • chicasl10 says:

      what a life u had Prenin.
      i do hope for G.that her eyes open..cos the danger is..that one day the guy will go over the edge.

      • prenin says:

        I told her that, but she’s more afraid of losing what she has than of being attacked or even killed by this low-life…

        At least it’s on record now and he’ll not get away with it next time.

        And with scum like that there WILL be a next time…

        Love and hugs!


      • chicasl10 says:

        what she has????
        a horrible life Jesus i dont understand G Prenin.
        are material things more important than a save life.???

  4. jennyozzy says:

    hope your rainbow appears soon and you can relax and stress out lifes funny sometimes but amazing how we cope be well xxjen

  5. Androgoth says:

    Right Sweeti, we need to take you on a tour of wanton wickedness, yes alright you can sit up front with me as it’s going to be a very Scary and most Ghoulish adventure with, yes you’ve guessed it, lots of Ghouls, Skeletons, Werewolves, Zombies and a couple of Naughty Vampires (That’s Just Jen and Me By the Way… lol)

    Okay enough of the formalities let’s get down to it… Nooooooo not that cheeky, the other, well not the other either, not as what you were thinking… lol Okay I think that I have dug myself out of that large hole good enough for now soooooooooooooooooooo let’s go… BTW – If you feel a little chilly there’s a spare Vampire Cape under the seat but be careful as you feel around under there for that as it’s Uncle Onslo’s favourite sleeping position, but as he sometimes sleeps this way or that you might grab hold of something about his person, actually I don’t know if you already know this but it is said that Vampires whom sleep in the nude have a very good chance of getting it, and those Transylvania colds never seem to go quickly you know?

    Hey were you thinking of something else there Sweeti? How very naughty of you… lol Right well you can imagine what kind of thrilling times are ahead soooooooooooooo I will leave that for your own wicked imagination… lol

    Have a lovely rest of evening and remember,
    We are always here for you sooooooooooo there…

    Androgoth XXx

    • chicasl10 says:

      ohh Andro
      this is what i needed…i love it
      and the Onslo guy well yes indeed i was thinking to dirty lol
      hehe u and ur Jenn are awesome.. made me smile and think
      Jesus those 2 are special
      u and ur Girly
      and i loved the ride.
      my gog me on a ride with andro and Jenn..Yahoooooooooooo

      • Androgoth says:

        I am holding up the Cape and all
        you have to do is jump inside… lol
        It’s been a tough day for you today
        but you’re a strong lady and will be
        alright our wonderful great friend

        Androgoth XXx

      • Androgoth says:

        Strong and Wicked Too…

        Androgoth XXx

      • chicasl10 says:

        yes i will jump and then Andro?? where is this trip go to???
        waiting for the moment u let me out again.
        Yes im strong..( i think) but with moments im toooooooo emotional. I work on after a while i will have hair on my

  6. Hi Mj,
    It sounds like you could really use some peaceful relaxing time, I hope you get it.
    I never knew your cats name before, I guess that’s why you named your url chicas, very sweet, and very cute cat!
    Please let me know when your birthday is.
    Big hug, Nikki

    • chicasl10 says:

      Indeed Nikki thats my hotmail
      it started 2005. lol
      My birthday is oktober 16Th
      and im getting old lol
      Things are getting in kind of direction..I mean
      i know how to handle and that makes me a bit more comfortable with it
      tx Nikki

  7. Seth@ChaosHQ's says:

    Anyone can give up, it’s the easiest thing in the world to do. But to hold it together when everyone else would understand if you fell apart, that’s true strength. Chin up, there’s so much more to you and those that matter to you… then what you are all going through. Be strong now because things will get better. Believe in the power of positive thinking.

    • Seth@ChaosHQ's says:

      Nice pussy you have there, I wish that I could sleep like that. I wish that someone would rub my belly too. 😦

      • chicasl10 says:

        haha well she is addicted to belly rubbing lol
        its a real 100% cat…
        sleep eat and snore. ohh yes and now with spring we need to comb her every time we lift our ass
        well Seth
        i belief in the positiv of course. and we cant change things
        so we walk the road ahead…no left no right
        tx MJ

  8. michiko san says:

    I feel a LITTLE BETTER from your news but what can you do about with other poeple has been sick? only you can do them your best.
    So sorry you are going through this difficult and painful time.
    Chicas have no worry? can you sharing your worry with her LOL!
    I’m on the other side of the globe but I’m with you Sweeti san.
    Big Hugs,

    • chicasl10 says:

      yes Michiko san
      i talk with her…
      she doesnot answer but she shows.
      Things will work out just time will Seth says
      stay positiv.. and that what we will do
      i know ur with me Michiko san
      eventhough u are at the my feet when we turn the globe upside down
      tx for being here

  9. Yes 🙂 Take a few tips from that gorgeous cat of yours! Lovely photo…hope life picks up for you soon. In the midst of much upset it can be hard to see the wood for the trees. But you will get there 🙂

    • chicasl10 says:

      i will wolfy
      as we say u get stronger and indeed
      its true. With one day a time we get there
      so today we had funeral..The church was to small.
      kids did speech..but with tears
      it was so beautiful how he spoke abt his dad.
      and now
      to morrow an empty house for my colleague..Then the real pain starts…

  10. prenin says:

    Hi Sweety!

    Sometimes – far too often in my book – people are so afraid of being alone that they will accept the unacceptable.

    All I can do, as I have done many times, is catch the falling pieces and pray I can clean up the mess.

    Sometimes that is the only thing you can do…

    God Bless!


  11. Hi Princess , wow no wonder the world is in a shit of a mess , seems that God is too busy dumping all his own woes on you and neglecting everyone else , keep smiling girl , surely the sun must shine for you soon .
    Big lovey mushy hug to cheer you up girl

    • chicasl10 says:

      tx a lot Ian.
      things are running now.
      My friend had his first chemo But docs said at the end it will make u feel very sick. But he is positiv and says WILL see then.
      and my mom in alw is walking so slowly…and other things need time
      but we will get there. Day by day

  12. Nearly missed the pussy , wish I could relax like that and hope to God someone would rub my belly for me

    • chicasl10 says:

      hha call some one Ian .There must be one person on this earth that would like to do that for u..
      well Chica is 23 hrs a day on her

  13. prenin says:

    They tossed him over the side of the ship so there would be no martyres tomb for his followers to claim as a place of pilgrimage – and I believe they got him because they made a point of shooting him in the head TWICE to make sure!

    He’s gone Sweety and the world is a better place without him… 🙂

    The lack of information means that his followers can’t use it as a rallying cry – Osama Bin Laden will simply become a footnote in the history books.

    Love and squishy hugs hun!


  14. Seth@ChaosHQ's says:

    Helloooo Sweeti! Here’s hoping that this greeting finds you in higher spirits. I trust that you are still keeping and thinking positive thoughts? Please do. Because like the old saying goes… “Worry is like a rocking chair–it gives you something to do but it doesn’t get you anywhere.” I believe this to be true.

    • chicasl10 says:

      Hi Seth
      I stay positiv, always. But it was a bit to much.
      Now everything is slowly getting back to normal
      although my friend is second week in chemo.
      And afraid..a lot.

  15. long time since being here and obvious much has happened in your life and those around you. changes cannot be haulted. as just read and suggested by friend Seth ‘stay positive’ is very good advice. change will come. it always does.
    “To enjoy good health, to bring true happiness to one’s family, to bring peace to all, one must first discipline and control one’s own mind. If a man can control his mind he can find the way to Enlightenment, and all wisdom and virtue will naturally come to him.”

    love, Eddie

  16. chicasl10 says:

    Wise words Eddie. I read a lot abt this topic.
    and indeed as they say u become stronger and i am
    things getting back to normal at the moment.

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