a Good day a bad day

One day i go to a funeral ( saterday ) and the next day ( sunday) i  go to a party.

Is this normal?

It seems  Well i have problems with that. Everyone  says life goes on so u have to absorbe and dont think to much. Well i think much..Is that wrong.??

Maybe. These days serious things happen in my family life and i cant really accept that.

 U have to … every one says..WHY???  do i??? Hell no

Im not accepting.

and oke next day i go to a party..And i enjoy after 2 glasses of  champy    This was my sunday.cheers.

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13 Responses to a Good day a bad day

  1. Joe Cutler says:

    It’s normal in that this is life I suppose but as crazy as things can be it’s reality. We were celebrating our anniversary yesterday and came home to find that a dear friend’s brother collapsed and died of heart failure…ironically enough they gave him a clean bill of health at the doctor recently…strange. I think either way you look at it…it’s life and reality.

    • chicasl10 says:

      It is Joe. Reality is click and turns ur world upside down.
      First i want to congratulate u and ur wify with the anniversary..
      Sorry for delay reply But its a hectic time for me,
      As we say We dont know the hour or day when God calls us
      Enjoy the Xmas days Joe It will be busy times for u i suppose no?

  2. I think your reaction to such events is perfectly normal. We are thinking creatures, created and born that way, so it is inevitable we are going to question why? Life does not always provide answers though does it? At least not the ones or in the way in which we search and wish for. Perhaps sometimes those answers are beyond our current understanding even if we were to be given them on demand. Maybe we have to mature through life and experiences before we would be able to grasp the meaning of the answers…and maybe some things we will never know because we were never meant to know. We cannot expect to receive the good in life without the bad…we do not question why? when the good times come!! Reality is the biggest question of all!!

    • chicasl10 says:

      thats a fact and i realise that.We cant force things as we want happy times always.
      the times we spend in happiness we have to cherish.And as u say we realise the good times more when we also have bad times to undergo with pain
      For our close loved ones we are in pain. We stand aside in a way .What can we do.
      we can be there even without words we can support.
      Tx Wolfy
      Enjoy the Xmas days as much as u can.

  3. prenin says:

    When I was young i used to go to Weddings and people used to slap me on the back and say: “When is it your turn?”

    Today I go to funerals, slap them on the back and ask the same question…

    NOBODY gets out of this life alive so enjoy it while you have it! 🙂

    Love and hugs!


    • chicasl10 says:

      Oh thats true Prenin One day its our turn.
      time ?? we dont know when God calls us. So enjoy as much as we can
      Thats my opinion to.En joy the Xmas days Prenin..
      and maybe we have to stop thinking>?

  4. Life is for living and not regrets , funerals leave us with memories as do parties but the party memories are much more fun when taken with a few glasses of bubbly
    Ian aka Emu

    • chicasl10 says:

      Cheers Ian.
      Last funeral ( not this one) we got bubbles on the funeral.
      It was kind of wierd…But we respected the one had died.in a special way.
      tx Ian Enjoy the Xmas days. ciaoo

  5. Divoo says:

    That is what we call Life. 🙂

  6. It’s not wrong to think deeply about things or feel deeply about things, what’s normal is what feels right for you.
    I hope you’re week is a good one MJ, Big hugs, Nikki

    • chicasl10 says:

      Tx Nikki.
      Life is still not easy these days. We have serious health probs in family.
      I want the sad things to stop in my life.
      But what can we do…Be there as support and laying awake during nights
      but i want to wish u wonderful X mas days. Light ….the Xmas thought.
      Be well

  7. We often think we shouldnt enjoy ourselves Mj, if someone passes over to the after-life.. thinking we should be sad… But through my own belief system.. I know that a passing over to the otherside is regarded by those meeting them on the otherside as a great celebration, a homecoming and is a little like ‘Party Time’ over there.. So I know that loved ones and friends would not wish us to be sad, but to go out and have our own good time.. So I am happy you decided to go to your party and you had a good time… Life is for Living in the moment..
    Love and Blessings xx

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