Never i will allow a stranger to touch my body.

These last weeks well known men are in the news in Belgium. Not cos they did something special..Hell no. For sexual intimidation at work. ( Hot item )

Here is one story of so many. A student nurse was working in a hospital (in Belgium) She worked in the cardio section. The cardiologist ( her boss)was touching her every moment. Even when patients where present  in his office.The nurse was numb the moments he did that. She kept it all to herself. She was ashamed inside and even her parents did not know a thing abt this. At certain time she stopped going to work and asked her family doctor to write an absent note for her.  But after a while she had to go again. She tried to avoid him as much as she could. But the cardiologist went on and on. One day she talked abt this with a co cardiologist ( she trusted him )and he was not suprised at all. That evening she told her parents. Her dad was furious and went to the hospital but the dr was not there at that moment. ( good for him cos i think the father would have done something irreversible.

She made a complaint and after that the cardiologist offered her money to stop the complaint. She refused.  And after a 6 years crusade she won. As she said I made a complaint…. the fight made me strong. This is hot item now in Belgium.

Even a politician ( he withdrew himself from politics) , and a tv celeb ( he denies and talks abt the lady as if she is sick in her head ) ( nice try man).

At certain moment she asked herself  He did not rape me litteral. She started to doubt abt normal behaviour and she started to minimise things. Crazy what this is doing to a person.

The nurse is now working in the hospital where my bro in law stayed during his sickbed.

I respect that lady for the courage to fight against the undesirable intimacies of her boss.

This was one rotten apple. U see that not every apple is like that.

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22 Responses to Never i will allow a stranger to touch my body.

  1. prenin says:

    We see things like this happen often in the UK, but some people are too frightened to say anything, fearing for their jobs. 😦

    She’s a brave woman and I admire her immensely!!! 🙂

    Love and hugs!

    Prenin.

    • chicasl10 says:

      i think its a wierd situation..one way u can use ur middle finger and say i leave But thats to simple. Its the way of having power over a person.
      tc Prenin tx

  2. Yes alot of sexual Harassment goes on in the workplace, I am pleased she stood up and won, Maybe others now will think how their actions affect others..Often especially young girls are afraid, and then its usually a boss so they think they will lose their jobs… Good for her and her courage.. ~Sue

  3. michiko san says:

    Sweet san,
    Student nurse in Belgium some thing special hot item,
    kept it all to her selt where present.
    She made a complaint and after that the cardiolist offered.
    The nurse is now working in the huspital. .
    Love to see you….
    Michiko

    • chicasl10 says:

      its good to see u back also Michiko san
      i hope u can do also things in garden again??
      yep Michiko san the nurse is working and her boss is not a rotten apple.
      in that hospital bosses treath their employes as equal.
      Enjoy the sunday Michiko san
      MJ

  4. arcticwl says:

    i like the words”I made a complaint…. the fight made me strong” .
    What a pity!so many male professionals they control their mind,but they can’t do the same to their lower bodies…
    Happy weekend MJ,
    Hugs.

    • chicasl10 says:

      Wolfy the complaint was in court. we name it laike that. Its true When the brain is working between the legs. The head is empty.
      Happy weekend also for u Wan Li.

  5. It is very frustrating that as women very often we have to fight so long and so hard for the equality and respect afforded automatically to many male employees in our work places. Not only that but it is highly unpalatable abuse of power and position and the need for a woman to fight so long and hard for recognition that there is even an issue just shows how painfully male orientated both the workplace and courts really are. It is good that the fight makes us stronger. But we must learn to how to be strong enough to deal with intended sexual intimidation in the workplace before it ever gets to that point. We have to start believing in ourselves as women and learning how to gain the self confidence to stop it before it starts. It is a form of bullying and shows contempt for us. We are not pieces of meat in any circumstance and we deserve respect. It is time all women stood tall and proud as we have a right to do, to stand up and be counted. Then watch those would-be intimidators squirm!!

  6. chicasl10 says:

    its like when a woman looks good or dress good…she asks for it???
    thats what i hear so often.
    crazy But now In Belgium its PAY TIME as my friend says.
    everything will come out at the end.
    women are stronger now cos they know its possible to get heared.
    they dont have fear anymore.
    respect
    wow
    TC lady wolfy
    MJ

  7. Divoo says:

    there’s nothing like asking for it… it can happen to any woman, pretty or ugly, fully clad or skimpily dressed… it just there, and it’s the women who need to stand up against it, and give such buggers a tight slap.

    • chicasl10 says:

      those persons need medication or amputation so they can never do it again.
      its same with ppl that kill.Years ago a guy was out of jail next day he killed a nurse.
      so judges say he is ready for the world again….The nurse should be alive
      its also the fault of the persons that decide that he is ready again.
      I admire Marianne Bachmeier

      \she killed the raper and killer of her lil daughter.It happened in Germany
      Thumbs up for her.

      Justice for every crime. So that they never do it again. So the persons that touch women
      should never get a second chance.

  8. Androgoth says:

    Those perverts are all over the place Sweeti,
    they should be put up against a wall and shot
    for being so vile and disgusting, they have a
    sick mind to put a woman through this kind of
    sexual torment, I hope he got what he deserved
    for his unprofessional and gross manner…

    I am pleased that she came forward with this
    complaint Sweeti and now he will get his reward,
    hopefully something that will make others think
    twice before ruining another human beings life
    with their sad and pathetic wants…

    Have a lovely Tuesday Sweeti 🙂

    Androgoth XXx

    • chicasl10 says:

      it is Andro
      she started the engine and now more women do it.
      When women talk abt this now they always say.
      Police started to ask me things when i went there to find help ….as i asked for it???. it was always like that
      so they asked themselves WHY will i go to police??
      they dont belief me.
      but now
      yep..I think Andro
      amputatiom of the family jewels..
      right??
      MJ

  9. gmarilena says:

    Interesting story, we should learn to ALWAYS speak out. Thanks for sharing, it may help women finally set themselves free…

  10. WordsFallFromMyEyes says:

    My God, if only men could wake up about how their selfish acts impact on our lives. This is really, really sad.

  11. WordsFallFromMyEyes says:

    I meant it’s sad she had to fight it over six years. Pathetic creep. I’m glad she won, but it’s just so SAD we have to FIGHT.

  12. chicasl10 says:

    Ppl with so called power think they can afford everything. But she made it..

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